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Sunday
Mar092014

Watch Out! You are in Phase One!

I see it over and over again. You meet someone. You are attracted. You are excited about this new person. You finally have sex and feel even more excited about what this relationship holds. You tell your friends and co-workers you have just met someone fantastic and think this could be the one.  And while these feelings and thoughts are completely normal and expected, it is important for you to know that you are officially in phase one of a developing relationship.

Phase one feels good. It's an exciting ride. It's the phase that drives people to have affairs; it causes breakups and creates professional serial daters. All this chaos, just so you can feel that excitement once more.  It's also the phase that can delude you into thinking you have just met your soul mate when in reality, you may have just met your next nightmare (or not).

In a newly developing relationship, it is easy to confuse sexual connection with true intimacy. Even though you may feel connected, like you've known this person for a thousand years, in reality, you don't know this person well at all. And while the release of dopamine and oxytocin can make you feel attached and bonded, it will behoove you to keep one eye on the exit door.

My intentions are not to be a naysayer, but instead, a wise counsel. I want you to enjoy the ride and enjoy getting to know your new love interest. I just don't want you to be so infatuated that you miss all the warning signs. I don't want you to wake up one day in a few years and say "What have I done?!"

Instead, I want you to enjoy getting to know someone with a healthy dose of skepticism and a healthy dose of optimism. You need both. You need to let your heart open and move forward—just do it in a steady pace. You need to be vulnerable and understand that no one is perfect—just proceed with both your left and right brain in gear. You need to enjoy the sexual intensity and passion all the while understanding that the intensity will most likely fade—and this doesn't mean there's anything wrong. 

What's important is to be present to all that phase one has to offer while understanding that phase two is just around the corner. So keep your eye on the ball and keep your eye on the target.  You need both to score the goal. 

For those of you that aren't familiar with Phase One and Phase Two of a development relationship, I encourage you to check out The Pathway to Love books and programs. It’s a powerful way to understand the nature of relationships, what went wrong in your past relationships, how your relationships mirror what you need to see about yourself, and prepares you for creating a healthy and intimate relationship.  You can find this at www.JulieOrlov.com/24-hour-relationship-help. The program will help you identify your needs, help you communicate more effectively and understand what it takes to create long-term, strong and intimate relationships.

Order your program today and get started!

If you or someone you know wants to let go of something in their life that no longer works and create the space for something new, don't hesitate to contact me. I'm here to help. I provide personalized guidance and coaching. And if you want to start right now, go and purchase The Pathway to Love at-home program. You don’t need to wait. You can begin the process today. Take advantage of the opportunity receive the support and guidance you deserve. 

Be well,

Julie

Julie Orlov, psychotherapist, speaker, and author of The Pathway to Love: Create Intimacy and Transform Your Relationships through Self-Discovery

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Sunday
Feb092014

Bring Your A-Game to Valentine's Day  

Usually, I'm a bit of a scrooge when it comes to V-day. I reject the commercialism and pressure that this holiday puts on couples and singles alike. I encourage people to simply enjoy a day that celebrates love without caving in to the pressures to buy expensive flowers or go to expensive restaurants. For some reason, this year I feel differently.  I believe that true romance is quickly becoming a lost art. People now rely on texting and Facebook over true courtship and romance. I believe that romance needs a comeback and if Valentine's Day is my opportunity to bring some romance back in vogue, then I say YES!

So for all you couples out there, make this Valentine's Day count. Practice romance. Go all out. Be corny, creative, kinky, whatever—just be romantic! Let's see who can come up with the most romantic idea for Valentine’s Day. I promise, with the right attitude, it will be fun.

Click on Read in Browser to leave your plan for romance on the blog. Let's help each other out and come up with ideas that are sure to make cupid proud.

If you or someone you know wants to create a strong and intimate relationship, don't hesitate to contact me. I'm here to help. I provide personalized guidance and coaching. And if you want to start right now, go and purchase The Pathway to Love at-home program. You don’t need to wait. You can begin the process today. Take advantage of the opportunity receive the support and guidance you deserve. 

Wishing you a wonderful and romantic Valentine’s Day,

Julie

P.S. Don't forget to catch my radio/TV show Pathways to Love w'Julie Orlov LIVE every Sunday 1:30pm PST on LATalkLive!

Julie Orlov, psychotherapist, speaker, and author of The Pathway to Love: Create Intimacy and Transform Your Relationships through Self-Discovery

Retrieve Your FREE Relationship Assessment Quiz and see if YOUR Relationship is on track at www.julieorlov.com/quiz

Create Relationships in Your Life That Work — learn more at www.julieorlov.com

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