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“Insightful, practical, heartfully and psychologically sound, The Pathway to Love provides the steppingstones to creating genuine love in your life.  It is a must-read for those who value honesty, authentic commitment to self and other, and appreciate relationship as a vehicle to self-actualization.”

—Michael Bernard Beckwith, author of Spiritual Liberation~Fulfilling Your Soul’s Potential

 

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You will wonder at times how she knew about you and a particular significant other because she seems to describe you and the relationship to a T. And, when you read the last page you will wish you had read it years and a number of relationships earlier.

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I have read other books on this topic which spoke to me... This book, which I got in the Kindle version, pulled it all together for me--the biology, personal values, self identity, the human quest for belonging and intimacy. The book... brought to me great understanding. I wish I had ordered the paper version with the workbook. I ended up going back and ordering it.

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Monday
Aug182014

Words of Wisdom

"Your time is limited, don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma, which is living the result of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of other's opinion drowned your own inner voice. And most importantly, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition, they somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary."  --Steve Jobs

Today, live your life by these words of wisdom. If you find it works for you, then try it for another day. Each day counts. If you focus more on discovering who you are, you will be less concerned with how others see you. The less concerned you are with how others perceive you, the more attractive you become.

If you or someone you know wants to create a strong and loving relationship with yourself, don't hesitate to contact me . I am here to provide personalized guidance and coaching . And if you want to start right now, go and purchase The Pathway to Love at-home program. You don’t need to wait. You can begin the process today. Take advantage of the opportunity receive the support and guidance you deserve.

As always, I’m here to support you in creating a transformational life and strong and powerful relationships.

Be well,
Julie

Julie Orlov, psychotherapist, speaker and author of The Pathway to Love: Create Intimacy and Transform Your Relationships through Self-Discovery

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Friday
Jun202014

Don't Let Your Ex Sabotage Your Future Relationship 

When you are ready to start dating, your last relationship may be getting in the way. For example, if your ex was a great lover, you may compare his love making with every potential partner that comes your way. If your new love interest doesn't add up, you may focus on the comparison, dismissing all the wonderful qualities that belong to this new man, and only this man. In an effort to re-live or hang on to something meaningful from the past, you may be jeopardizing your future.

Other times, your past relationship may bring up painful memories. So when you begin dating someone new, you may become hyper vigilante--looking for anything that might indicate your new love interest is like your ex. For example, if your ex cheated on you, you will look for anything that might indicate he has a wandering eye. And when you find something, and by the way you WILL find something if you're looking for it, you may jump to conclusions prematurely. In an effort to protect yourself, you may sabotage a newly developing relationship unnecessarily.

To make matters worse, our memories are fallible. We can remember people being far better or worse than they were. We tend to distort our memories. They shift over time. They changed based on how much time has passed, what is currently at stake and who and what we are comparing them with.

So be careful. Don't let your memories of your ex get in the way of learning and appreciating someone new. To help you with this endeavor, here are some signs that your Ex may be sabotaging your future relationship.

1. You only remember the good things about your ex.
2. You believe your ex was your soul mate and secretly wish you were still together.
3. You only remember the bad things about your ex.
4. You have not resolved the trauma experienced in your past relationship.
5. You don't trust yourself to evaluate a new person and determine if the relationship is healthy for you.
6. You are so uncomfortable with the empty space that now exists since your breakup with your ex that you will jump into any relationship that comes your way.
7. Not enough time has passed since your last relationship ended in order to gain a balanced perspective.

Take the time you need to process your past relationship so you can see things realistically. Get the help you need in order to learn what you need to learn moving forward. Make the necessary changes in yourself so you can be your best in your next relationship. And last, remember every person and every relationship is unique. And while comparing one to another is normal, don't let any comparisons distract you from discovering who someone new is and developing your best relationship yet!

If you are someone you know is struggling with dating and finding love, don't hesitate to contact me. I'm here to help. I provide personalized guidance and coaching. And if you want to start right now, go and purchase The Pathway to Love at-home program. You don’t need to wait. You can begin the process today. Take advantage of the opportunity receive the support and guidance you deserve.

Be well,

Julie

Julie Orlov, psychotherapist, speaker, and author of The Pathway to Love: Create Intimacy and Transform Your Relationships through Self-Discovery

Retrieve Your FREE Relationship Assessment Quiz and see if YOUR Relationship is on track at www.julieorlov.com/quiz

Create Relationships in Your Life That Work — learn more at www.julieorlov.com

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